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When it comes that time a a student’s college career for that person to begin attending career fairs and aspiring for interviews, the professional look is the ticket. A college grad needs to show those hopeful future employers that they should be taken seriously because they take themselves seriously. There are certain ways in which an individual seeking a career can dress for success, but this wardrobe should continue on into the workplace.

This video is beneficial for men and women. It is best when going to an interview to keep it conservative, and choose the suit. Make sure you are fully groomed, meaning a shower would be your best bet. Men, you don’t want to have your hair being too messy, so a good clean cut would help. Ladies, too much perfume can also give the interviewer a headache.

Bright colors should be avoided. There are other ways to address your personality through your outfit, but flashy colors are not a good idea. For women, keep accessories simple because they can be distracting. After all, you don’t want your wardrobe to be all you have to say for yourself. Let your accomplishments and attributes shine through in your interview. Also for women, be aware of how much skin is being shown. As my tenth grade geometry told us for his class, no bellies, boobs, or butts please. If you choose to wear a skirt, make sure it a conservative length.

Good colors to wear to an interview are black, brown, navy, or beige. For guys, the tie should not be bright, flashy, or have a crazy pattern. Also the solid, thick “millionaire” tie is a negative because it gives off an arrogant vibe. Go for a tie that has subtle pattern with a mute color. A basic white, french, or baby blue button down with the suit will also go well.

Ladies, make sure your shoes are the ones you would wear out with your friends on a Saturday night. The heel does not need to be too high, and all the straps can be distracting.

You outfit in an interview should accent you, not be your selling point. After all, the clothes are not going to do the job for you. Make sure to keep it tasteful, keep it classy, and keep it professional.

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Social medias such as Facebook, Twitter, MySpace, LinkedIn, and even blogs like mine play a major factor in today’s graduating college students. Because we spend a good portion of our time on these social medias, it was only a matter of time until our prospective employers checked them out. Only in recent years has this social media frenzy affected the way in which aspiring graduates are critiqued for the job position in which they are applying for. There are definitely several pros and cons as to why employers should or should not consider that particular person for a position in that company. In a sense, a person’s social media profile is a good insight into their lifestyle, personality, and personal choices. It was only a matter of time until the employers figured it out.

The Ups

The way to get your name out there these days before even looking or applying for jobs is definitely social media, and of course social networking. One thing that is great about Twitter is that a hopeful employee can “follow” or be “followed” by a company that he or she shows interest in. Not only are they able to see things about the company, but that company can maybe get a glimpse at their profile. LinkedIn, which is a social media that I recently join, I think is the best social media when it comes to looking for a job. It is like an online resume, or at least a resume in a casual sense. These two networks, I have seen so far be the best for college grads. One of my friends, and former sorority sister, was able to get help on her resume, find a hopeful employer, and snag an interview, all by using her Twitter account.

The Downs

I will be the first to admit, I am addicted to Facebook. However, I do not think that my account will help me when it comes time to get a job. Here are a few reasons why: I use it to keep in touch with friends and family, and most of the time they like to write inappropriate things on my wall. I also get tagged in tons of pictures from nights out with my friends, pictures that I probably would not want my hopeful employer to see. Before I begin applying for a job, I know I need to go through my account and do a clean sweep. There is something about Facebook that takes some or the professionalism out. While I do enjoy for my personal life, I am aware that those hiring will look at my profile, and will judge me by it. I think Myspace takes t to a whole new level of low. Not only can you customize your page with crazy designs, but it is way more graphic than Facebook. I would think that a smart individual looking for a career would be smart enough to erase their account with Myspace completely.

Overall, I think it is important that people keep up with the times and join the social media workforce. While I am not a huge fan of blogging, I know that this is another outlet that will benefit me in the long run. My blog is also clean, and serves a good purpose especially with my Public Relations major.

Don’t forget to clean up those wild Saturday night pictures on your Facebook!

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Ashley Renfroe

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These were really good tips! I completely agree about how a cover letter needs to be concise and get the point across. After all, a hopeful employee only has a little time to catch the attention of that employer.

Body language and nonverbal communication are a huge part when it comes to interacting with others. Talking is only a fraction of the conversation, listening is also very important. It is so much easier to understand the message that the sender is sending in person rather than on the phone, email, or text message. It happens when people are in a disagreement, where in person they could be standing with arms crossed or fists clenched. Or when people are expressing words of gratitude, they could be reaching out to hold hands with very forward body language. Certain gestures likes these are unfeasible when the conversation is email, phone, or text. While the phone helps to hear the tone of voice and emotions, it doesn’t allow the people to read each others faces or body.

According to the Changing Minds site, “Nonverbal communication has a significant effect on what is communicated.” It comes to people so naturally to wear their emotions, feelings, or intentions on their sleeves. We use our heads to motion a direction or tilt in confusion. One thing I found interesting about the Changing Minds site is that nonverbal communication can even be generated by the material items possessed by the person, be it their clothing, car, items on their desk at work. It is so easy to go through the motions of the day and experience hundreds of different types of nonverbal language and body language. In a communication study done by Alfred Mehrabian, in which they studied people listening to certain words in different tones. The study concluded the formula that communication is 7% verbal, 38 % vocal (tone of voice), and 55% facial (i.e. the body language).

People experience so much nonverbal communication and body language comes from relationships. According to Helping Guide, “Nonverbal communication cues can play five roles: repetition, contradiction, substitution, contemplating, accenting.” For example, when a boss complements one of their employees on a job well done, the extra nonverbal communication comes in the form of a pat on the back. A good way for a person to really work to read nonverbal cues is in the beginning of a relationship when getting to know someone. When first meeting someone, that person who is interested will want to pick up on their regular gestures and expressions, trying to understand their normality.

Nonverbal communication cues can definitely help when a person is lying. According to Mind Tools, there are many typical signs when a person lies, such as, “Eyes maintain little or no contact, or there may be rapid eye movement, hands or fingers are in front of the mouth when speaking, body may be physically turned away, breathing rate increases, complexion changes, perspiration increases, and a change in voice.” Little signs like these start to show when a person who is trying to lie becomes uneasy in their speech.

A good, first hand example of nonverbal cues was a little disagreement I had with my boyfriend this afternoon. When we first began talking, our motions were at ease. However, when the argument escalated my arms became tense, kind of like a way of defense. Also, we readjusted the way we were sitting to be angled away and further apart. When he got frustrated, I could hear him let out deep breathes, and could see him roll his eyes. When we reconciled the argument, both of us let the stiffness in our composure subdue. Something like this is not what people normally think about unless looking at it from the outside or looking back on a situation.

When it comes to a resume, a cover letter is an essential part of the ensemble. It is the first piece of the pie that any company seeking to hire will be reading. Writing a cover letter, a hopeful employee needs to be professional. A resume should help persuade the employer to further read the entire resume, and hopefully get you an interview for whatever job.

According to a helpful Virginia Tech website, it is aimed to help students about to graduate better prepare their resumes. The resume needs to call attention to the purpose in which it is being sent. First of all there are two different types of cover letters: those of application and those of inquiry. The website has several example resume links for each type. Application is applying for a definite open position, and inquiry is asking if there is a possible job position that could be applied for. There are also differences between a hard copy resume and email. According to the Virginia Tech website, “The main difference between e-mail and hard copy correspondence is format: your signature block (address, etc.) goes below your name in e-mail, while it goes at the top of the page on hard copy. Of course you won’t have a handwritten signature on e-mail, but don’t forget this on hard copy.”

It is important that your cover letter is specific to the position in which you are applying. The cover letter then, should stress the skills and experience that relate to the position you are seeking.

Thanks to About.com: JobSearch, they have given many templates for different types of cover letters. Check them out here, at Cover Letter Samples. The many links of the site can cater to your particular needs of the type of cover letter necessary. The cover letter is such an important part of the package because it is like making the first impression. You need to be knowledgeable about the certain type of cover letter needed, or the employer may just send your resume into the “reject” pile. Especially in the job market these days with not many college students being hired right after graduation, it is good to show that you know the requirements. About.com says, “Keeping in mind that your letter should express a high level of interest and knowledge about the job you are interested in.”

To get some good ideas going on starting your own cover letter for that important job opportunity, check out theCover Letter site, which provides free resume templates for many types of different jobs.  They are even willing to add those job cover letters that are not listed on their site! So helpful.

When it comes time to apply for the job, make sure that the cover letter gets as much time and effort as the resume. Obviously implying that all the details are in the resume is not that enticing for the employer. Just like the hook line of a story in the news, the cover letter needs to “hook” that employer’s interest in what you have to offer.

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Well, I’ve had this blog for about a year now, so I’m sure there is already an “about me” blog or two along the lines. This is my second time taking a course with Mrs. Nixon, and I have a feeling I’m going to enjoy this one as well. I am a junior public relations major at Georgia Southern. I am also a fashion merchandising minor. I belong to a sorority, and am also a member of PRSSA. So far, I have a fairly light schedule this semester. After last semesters load of classes, I think that taking only thirteen hours is totally worth it. I really enjoy being a public relations major. My goal with that degree and my minor is to work for a major fashion magazine, and hopefully have that be in New York. I would like for it to be soon after I graduate from Southern, just to be able to keep up with the fast-paced environment. I have a big passion for the fashion industry and really hope to get my foot in the door with whatever internship I could manage to land in the next year.

Other than being a student, I love reading, watching movies, exercising, being outdoors, spending time with my family and friends, and now being a new dog owner. Over the Christmas break, I rescued my first dog. She is a two-year old mutt named Chloe, and she officially owns me. I am adjusting to the schedule of owning a dog, and I will tell you it is a full-time job. But, she melts my heart and I could not have asked for a better dog. I highly recommend rescuing or adopting from the animal shelter.

As for the start of the new decade, I am hoping for a few things. I want to try and curb the procrastination, especially since I am taking my major courses. I also would like to read more for fun, because I have a full stack of books to go through. I am ready for another good semester, and hope that I will be able to do as well as the last.

I cannot believe how fast the time flew this fall semester. I have begun many of my major courses and it has been a whirlwind of work and fun. Coming back from Thanksgiving break, I am still in vacation mode because winter break is just around the corner. I only have four official class days left! While this semester has been a blast, I will be so glad to be at my own home in Duluth, resting on my big comfy couch and being lazy. I’ve put in a lot of effort this semester, so it is a well deserved break. I cannot wait to see all my old friends and hang out with my new ones. I’ll spend time with the boyfriend and his family which is always a fun time.

The only thing that stands between the break and I is this week and next. I am so busy with assignments this week, and beginning to study for my finals. I have my media kits, a five-page paper, the quizzes, and reviews. Not to mention all of the reading that needs to get done. It’s crunch time in the college world, and I think I’ll be able to make it out. Not only will I have to hang tight and get through all the assignments I’ve procrastinated, I’ve decided that I should have enough food at my apartment to not go grocery shopping. I’m sure by the time I reach my house for break, I’ll clear out the fridge.